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Tuesday, June 2, 2009
My view on relationships now My lunch still hasn't arrived! So i thought I'll blog first. I'm hungry. To me, relationship is a luxury and a want. Not a need. I think I am going to live well if I'm single all my life. Honestly, that's how I think and feel at this point in time. I think having not been in a proper relationship is main factor. Because I have not experienced the joy of being in one, I can very much do without it. It will not cause me to feel that my life is incomplete without it. Afterall, other aspects of love is very present in my life. My friends, my family, my relatives, God, church... Of course, this is not to say that my point of view won't change. In fact, I think it will change radically as I go through later stages in life. Social pressure will be a driving force pressurizing me to conform. Government policies too. Also, the Bible says that it is better to be 2 than 1. There will come a time when my personal conviction will be challenged. And I'm not sure if my conviction can stand against all these in the future. But one thing I am sure of is that I'm not really looking at being hitched now. Yeah I'm 22 years old and I'm given the full permission to bring home a boyfriend but I don't want to do it just for the sake of doing it, or because everyone else is doing it and so I should conform. WHY SHOULD I CONFORM? You'll regret it later, enling. You better heed my advice and start changing your weird mindset. Well, CHILL. I'm not saying that I'm not looking forward to being in a relationship! Just that if it doesn't come soon, I'm not going to feel as though my world is incomplete. My aunt told me to add oil. Cos she got her first boyfriend at 21 yrs old. And I'm already 22 this year. I would say, thanks for the reminder but I believe in timing, which is very crucial. On a sidenote, I believe every girl or guy in a relationship will want to feel that they NEED each other right? Not just a 'if have den have don't have den don't have' attitude. So all the more so. Labels: contemplative, daily rantings 1:46 PM
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