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Saturday, June 27, 2009
Understanding. Perception. Sometimes it's very difficult to get people to understand you. What you say may not always be perceived correctly. In those circumstances, I believe keeping to myself is the right choice. Rather than allowing people to misunderstand me And putting me into their 'box' I rather be silent. Especially since my conscience is clear before God. It's interesting that even that has consequences. People perceive that I'm a very quiet person. Enling is very quiet. She is a very quiet girl. But those who truly know me knows that I'm not dumb. I do speak. I do talk. Just that when I do, I make sure I talk sense. And I make sure what I say is disgestable for my listener. Otherwise...you will know me as a very quiet person. And I'm fine with that. Coz I rather keep quiet if you don't understand. That's me. Not sure if you feel this way too? Haha. Anyway...my friends understand me more than my family members. That's why I love to spend time talking with them. BUT. My family members love me more than my friends love me. This is a fact. Do you feel this way too? :) I wonder if this is how it will work in the future. Between me and my kids. Perhaps it will be the same since what we will sow, we will reap. There are times when I feel that there are absolutely NO ONE - not even my bestest of friends - can understand what I want to say. I want to believe that there are these times precisely because God wants to be my only listener. He wants me to pour out my deepest and most honest thoughts to Him. Anyway, He is the only one that has the ability to guide me out of difficult situations. Labels: contemplative 12:21 AM
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