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Monday, September 28, 2009
Maximized Manhood. REAL MAN. Pastor Kong went for the homerun today during service man! Two statements he made which I ABSOLUTELY ADORED and agree. #1 The type of man in the house determines the destiny of the female #2 If your name is no good, why will she (your wife, or your daughter) want to continue carrying your family name? What is the definition of "Real man"? A real man is someone who takes responsibility, and his word is his bond. That translates naturally to trustworthiness, which give women the much needed sense of security, which is a really big thing for 99.9% of women. She's lying if she says that she isn't looking for security when dating guys. Just want to say this & set the record straight! Indeed, I'm a big believer that what comes out of your mouth determines the character inside of you. If you hurl vulgarities, you are a vulgar man or woman. Even if it's just one word, or you may "unintentionally" say it. It's even worse if you say it is unintentional, then you don't actually know yourself that well, which means you have a problem with vulgarities or something even deeper like anger problem. And I can't imagine what that is going to escalate into in the long run. Likewise, if a person always shoot off his mouth before even stopping to do some thinking about the consequences, that person have a super duper low EQ. And he got to realize there's a HUGE need to change if he wanna see some success in his life. Now, my most honest and direct of all statement. I'm sick and tired of seeing men not fulfilling their fullest potential because I know that they are made to be so much more successful than right now. I'm not expecting every man to be perfect, but at the very least I hope to find some qualities of real man in my male friends. Okay disclaimer: I do have male friends with undeniable manhood, and I really do respect them for that. And I hope every girl who is in their heart will be so blessed because these male friends of mine are REAL MEN. So I'm not here to shoot every man down okay. Must mention again disclaimer. But of course, Pastor's message isn't confined to just the men but women as well. Our word should always be our bond and that applies regardless of gender. I am convicted of the sin of giving out idle words....I have valid reasons but they are really "excuses"....I am very inclined to say across the board (and i think this is right) that 90% of all reasons given by people are excuses. Only 1 or 2 out of 10 reasons are really valid reasons. I just want to be a better person and apply what I have learnt. I don't want to waste my 2 hours sitting in the church service yet not applying it. That would be a waste of my time and pastor's time of discipleship. So let's catch it, receive it and implement it. Labels: contemplative, daily rantings 12:33 AM
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