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Friday, November 6, 2009
Relationships I am writing this as a person who have yet experienced a full blown BGR (I did as a kid in secondary school but it was over IRC and ICQ. And I initiated the breakup after 2 or 3 months. How ____ is that??). I think this is a very important background information before reading onwards. Relationship is something I find a dilemma. Seeing people around me one by one getting attached, I am happy to see them being lovey dovey with each other. That made me see the beautiful side of getting into a relationship. But after some time, I see some conflicts happening amongst the couples and I'm no longer sure if I really want a relationship. I know that in a friendship, conflicts are inevitable so don't even talk about relationships. Yet I'm not so sure if I want that extra burden. Is that extra happiness brought by a BGR worth the extra burden of conflicts that comes along as a package?? That's something I'm still quite uncertain of. There's one thing I'm very certain of, though. I thank God for people around me who become my case studies to prevent the same mistake from happening on me and my future guy. Haha! To be honest, sometimes I really admire my friends who are attached. I believe that the power of two is stronger than one. Especially when I look at Pastor Kong and Sun, they are doing great works in the KOG like no other couples I have ever known. I really wish that when I do get into a relationship and get married, one day I can do great works like Pastor and Sun. That will be one of the the main purpose for me getting attached and married. As a couple, we must achieve things that those that are single cannot! If not, why get attached in the first place correct? Attached or single, there would then be no difference! As you can probably infer by now, but if you can't, let me tell you. I am really a very purpose driven person. If I don't see a rationale/purpose/goal/objective behind doing something, I will rather not do it. So.... When it comes, it will come. I know.... And I also trust that God has prepared somebody gentlemanly, godly, wise, capable, and purpose driven to be the guy in my life. But instead of putting expectations on others, I will first expect myself to change for the better, to become "the right person". I can't agree more with the blog entry I quoted from. Labels: contemplative 2:05 AM
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