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Thursday, April 22, 2010
Relationship precedes ministry  (Image source: http://ldhs78.wordpress.com/2008/04/27/7-types-of-friendship/)I have never taken a good look at and a serious thought over this phrase, "relationship precedes ministry" because deep in my heart, I felt that this phrase was a little belittling ministry. As a result, I never really understood this principle, until recently when I decided to face it fairly and squarely. And be the most objective that I can be. I think I have understood. Without relationship, no matter how glorious, godly, holy the ministry is, it can never take root. Not to say ministry isn't important, because it definitely is in the KOG. But as a bridge for ministry, relationship is undeniably important as well. So which is more important? I have finally understood it's not a question of which is more important, but rather WHEN is the time to build relationship, and WHEN is the time for ministry to come in. If we try to do ministry first when we should be doing relationship, it will not work out. Likewise, if it's time to introduce ministry but we keep focusing on relationship only, it is pointless. Why? Because we must love others (as in a relationship), but we must love them so much that we don't want them to remain the same. This is the time we know ministry should make its entrance. By "ministry", I don't mean just being spiritual, being Christian-y, etc....it just means, simply, you want to see your friend become a better person. If this means for him/her to improve certain character traits, then that will be your ministry towards him/her. If a strong relationship exists, even if ministry is weak or has failed many times, there is always hope for success. With a strong relationship, success in your ministry would just be a matter of time. People who disagree with this, who think otherwise, tend to esteem themselves too highly in front of God and other people. I used to be one of them, because I had never really accepted this principle into my spirit 100%. So....I really want to thank God for not giving up on me despite my flaws. The more I sow, the more weaknesses I spot in myself! It's amazing. Change is the essence of maturation. People who refuse to change, never grow up! Labels: contemplative, revelation 2:12 AM
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