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Friday, November 5, 2010
Self discovery I guess the older I get, the more I know the importance of getting right advice from the right sources, the more careful I become when choosing the right person to open up to. Especially so if I know that I am lacking in experience or knowledge of a particular thing. In case I get the wrong thing stuck in my head especially if I am very green in that area. And most of the time except for my close friends, I have my boundaries in opening up. Certain people will know me in a certain way, while other people will know me in other ways. Well, I do ask myself questions like does this make me a closed up person, or that I don't trust people easily. But I really do not think so. It's just that I am more cautious, and hopefully, wiser in the way I live life. I recognise the value of having the right influence in my life and likewise, I recognise the adverse impact of having the wrong influences. This is especially so when I have a very trusting character; it is my instinct to trust before I doubt and I know it. So this is like my own way of creating a defense mechanism to protect but not over-protect myself, I suppose. Well, just contemplating since I have the time - Happy Deepavali! Labels: contemplative 10:57 AM
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